Perhaps it’s because I am still full of lurgy and feeling sorry for myself that my defences are down but I am misting up all the time here. I would never have thought this park would kill me so much on daily basis but each day I have witnessed something incredible that has had me reaching for the tissues.
It’s probably that everyone’s defences are down and people are prepared to have a wonderful time no matter how foolish they may look. Thus it is nothing to see mothers wearing Minnie Mouse ears, fathers wearing Stitch hats or Goofy cowboy hats; all the while looking like fools while their children love them for it. The amount of unbridled joy and love you witness between child and parent while waiting in line for a ride is unparalleled. No matter how big a cynical corporation Disney is, that it can generate that response in people is pure magic.
However two moments captured me completely this week.
The first involved an intellectually disabled boy in his wheelchair, coke bottle glasses and spastic contortions, meeting his hero, Mulan. The cast member playing Mulan, an utterly captivating Asian woman, sat down next to the boy and held his hand. He shook happily at her touch. Even without talking you could tell he was captivated by her. She held his hand and spoke gently to him:
“You know my name, don’t you? It is Mulan.” The boy nods despite his constrictions. “Do you know my friend, Mushu? He is a red dragon who blows fire in his breath. He is magical.” The boy knows Mushu too. He is smiling so wide, his face looks so happy. The boy starts to drool slightly from the corner of his mouth and without hesitation, the cast member uses his cloth and wipes his mouth, all the while smiling and speaking to him. The boy is shaking with delight.
The cast member speaks softly now and grasps the boy’s hand tighter.
“Did you know you are magical too?”
His parents begin to cry.
I leave. Something in my eye.
Today I was lining up to see Buzz Lightyear. My niece is infatuated with Toy Story and I get uncle points for having pictures taken with celebrity cartoons, no matter how stupid I look doing so. To have your picture taken with Buzz you line up like a lemming and wait patiently if you are a 45-year-old man, less so if you are a three-year old boy.
I am next in line when the procession of people and photographs stop. A girl in a wheelchair is driven to the front of the queue. No one minds. She is physically handicapped, slightly less contorted than the previous boy but nevertheless significantly impaired. She is able to say Buzz, but that seems to be her only word.
Buzz walks up to her in her wheelchair and takes both her hands. She stands up and, with his support, walks towards the photo area. She is beaming with accomplishment.
He stops and kisses her on her hand. She is totally smitten, as is her audience.
Then Buzz lifts her up, pulls an arm wide and waltzes with her. Around and around. She is squealing with delight. When he finishes their dance, she hugs him so, so tight. He returns to her wheelchair and, as she sits, he bows towards her. He kisses her on the hand one last time. Her parents wheel her away, tearing up, as she laughs and laughs.
Buzz Lightyear took a well deserved break after that visit. Something in his eye. And mine. Again. Damn this place.
Oh Nigel, you are such a wonderful observer and can make the ordinary extraordinary.I am too still full of lurgy(and over it) and have the same symptoms, right down to something in my eye x
Damn you Nigel. You know I hate to cry. People will think I am mortal.
I never cry, but if I did this would have done it! Great stories, thanks for sharing!
I just read the story to Thomas and Trey and all three of us have something in our eyes. Damn you Gareth!
Nice one, bud. 🙂 You manage to make it sound real, as distinct to staged and saccharine. Not suggesting it was staged, of course. Just that there’s a ring of truth in your telling of it. Good to know that there’s someone, somewhere, training Disney staff to respond this way to people with disability.
I was thinking the exact thing. The cast members are clearly trained to drop everything and focus on a child with disability. I’ve seen this happen in a few parks now.
They are also clearly trained to go that extra mile. Children with disability get much more time with a character than a child without one. There clearly is special training.
I love reading your blog.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful stories. however your own story ” taking your parents there and acting like a fool 😉 ” make you better person than Staff in Disney Land. A real caring Person.
Oh Rez, you have no f***ing idea. If this week doesn’t get me a sainthood there is no God.
Kneel Nigel. I’ll bless you……………>:-)
Finally!!!!
Reading that was magical! …..despite something also jumping in my eyes. I need a tissue.
Way to go Buzz & Mulan!
Thanks to everyone for their wonderful comments.
Made my day. Cheers